Love is an extraordinary, powerful, wonderful emotion that shake our lives, our minds, our hearts. But Love make people less free ? My experience teach me that Love without Freedom cannot exist and that Rules such as marriage kill both Love and Freedom.
Marco Nisida
Actually there are two ways of limiting yourself in a relationship.
The first one (your own limit): think all the time about your man/woman, put his/her interests on the first place, limit your desires in relations with other people, etc.
The second one (relationship's limit): after the beginning of a beautiful period of relations – you start to live real life without the uncontrollable emotions: I/You should do this/that. Why didn't you call me?? Where have you been yesterday evening?? I was alone – I don't believe you! How you can don't think/be of/with me all the time? I/You have to do…. and bla bla bla…
Everything is possible, include freedom in relationship, if he or she is YOUR person. If you can't be yourself in the relationship, they'll finish for sure.. earlier or later – it's just the time question. Of course, our life is the big theater and people are actors, but it can't be for a long time.
Unfortunately the big problem is – we all had past relationship with faithlessness, lies, illusions. We all are egoistic, feel sorry for ourselves and sure that we are right in every question. That's why it is very hard to find your person, who will trust you, love you and be with you without any limits.